Everyday wellbeing · Understand your experience

Your mental wellbeing

Your wellbeing includes the things that help life feel manageable, connected and meaningful to you. You can explore what is helping, what is missing and one small choice that suits the life you have.

You can start with what feels useful to you.
01 / Get a clearer picture

Wellbeing is more than the absence of a diagnosis.

Positive wellbeing concerns feeling and functioning, while mental-health conditions involve other questions too. A high wellbeing score cannot certify that everything is fine.

Connection, activities you value, learning and noticing your surroundings can support wellbeing. What is possible depends on your health, circumstances and preferences; this is not a daily performance target.

Based on NHS · WHO · University of Warwick

You can start with what feels useful to you.
A visual explanation

There are different ways to make room for wellbeing.

  • Connection

    People you feel comfortable with

  • Interest

    Activities that matter to you

  • Space

    A moment to notice your day

  • Support

    Help with health or circumstances

Possible supports, not an official questionnaire, required routine or certificate of health. Source: NHS
A closer look

Feeling better can mean something particular to you.

It might mean more room for connection, getting through an ordinary task or receiving help with a difficult circumstance. Wellbeing is not a requirement to feel positive all the time.

Your health, disability, money, time and surroundings affect which options are accessible. A suggestion should fit your life rather than become another standard you are failing.

Based on NIMH · NHS · WHO

Different lives can call for different kinds of support.
02 / Make sense of what has changed

What would you like more room for?

Reflection areas rather than symptoms of a disorder.

Connection

Connection that feels comfortable and meaningful.

Activities you value

An activity you enjoy at a pace that fits you.

Interest & purpose

Interest, learning or a sense of purpose.

Room in your day

A little space to notice what helps your day.

Based on NHS

In everyday life

Choose the part you want to understand today.

You can follow one route and leave the others for another time. These areas overlap; they are not pillars to score or a checklist for a complete life.

  • An everyday difficulty

    Stress, loneliness or sleep may be your starting point.

  • A health question

    You may want a clearer explanation of a condition or change.

  • Practical circumstances

    Work, care responsibilities or access may need attention.

  • Help with next steps

    You can read about assessment or therapy without taking a test.

Information routes, not a ranked model of wellbeing.

Based on NIMH · NHS

03 / Put your experience into context

You can reflect without grading your life.

WHO-5 and WEMWBS are positive wellbeing measures with different content and editions. They do not tell you which mental-health condition you have.

You could talk about what supports you and what feels difficult alongside any score. If distress is affecting daily life, asking for professional help remains an option regardless of a wellbeing result.

Based on WHO · University of Warwick · NIMH

Your experience, in three prompts
  1. 1
    What helps you feel supported?

    People, activities or circumstances that matter to you.

  2. 2
    What feels missing?

    A part of life you would like more room for.

  3. 3
    What is possible now?

    One accessible choice or kind of help.

Make a few notes
Room for your questions

Support can be more useful than another tip.

If changes persist, distress is difficult to manage or daily life is becoming harder, consider professional advice. You can begin with the impact on you and what you hope will be different.

A positive wellbeing score would not rule out a health concern. Scores and lifestyle habits cannot certify that someone is well.

Based on NIMH

Make everyday life more workable

One option, rather than a routine to finish.

Choose what feels useful and accessible, or simply read for now.

A little connection

A message or shared activity with someone you feel comfortable with.

An interest of your own

Make room for something you enjoy without needing to get better at it.

Notice one helpful thing

An ordinary part of the day you would like to keep.

Based on NHS · NIMH

04 / Explore your support options

Build from a choice that fits your circumstances.

You can choose what feels useful, with room for your circumstances and preferences.

Based on NHS · NIMH

Choices that fit your day

An enjoyable activity, contact with someone or a small opportunity to learn may be a starting point. You can adapt activities to your access needs.

Support when life feels harder

Practical or professional support can matter when health or circumstances make wellbeing harder. You do not have to complete a self-care routine before asking for help.

Understand your options

An option can be worthwhile without fixing everything.

A manageable activity, contact with someone you value or practical help may offer something useful. Choose what is accessible and leave room to adapt it.

If a suggestion is not helpful, that is information about fit. It does not mean you lack effort or should postpone care.

Based on NIMH · NHS

Make room for what helps

Go straight to the question that brought you here.

These pages offer more specific explanations. You can read, return later or ask for support without completing an assessment.

Based on NIMH · NHS

05 / Choose your next step

A little clarity. A place to start.

Explore a tool, prepare a conversation or find someone to talk to. Choose what feels useful to you.

Questionnaires you might hear about

These positive wellbeing measures are explained here; their self-tests are not currently offered on Selfmora.

WHO-5

Reflect on recent positive wellbeing

WHO-Five Well-Being Index, 2024 edition

Five statements concerning the past two weeks, with higher scores representing better reported wellbeing.

What it can and cannot tell you

It is not a diagnosis or a health certificate. The current WHO edition has noncommercial licence conditions; commercial digital permission, exact form and reviewed feedback remain unresolved.

Read the current WHO edition

Based on WHO

WEMWBS

Explore feeling and functioning

Warwick-Edinburgh Mental Wellbeing Scale

The full 14-item wellbeing scale is distinct from the seven-item SWEMWBS. Warwick provides separate licence routes for different uses.

What it can and cannot tell you

Do not interchange editions or use a wellbeing score as a condition diagnosis. The correct licence, exact scoring and reviewed digital context remain pending; no licensed runner is supplied here.

Read Warwick's scale information

Based on University of Warwick

What helps you matters alongside any measure. You can use the support and conversation guides freely.

Something you can use today

Practical guideYour words

Prepare for a conversation

A few prompts to help you explain what you have noticed and what you would like help with.

  • A simple notes builder
  • Copy your notes to keep
  • No account needed

You decide how much to write and share.

Find your words
Support directorySomeone beside you

Find your next kind of support

Explore where to begin with everyday support, professional help or an urgent conversation.

  • Ways to ask for help
  • Country-specific crisis contacts
  • Support at your own pace

If you need urgent help, go straight to support.

Find support
You can start right here

Your first sentence does not need to be perfect.

You might want company, interest, a quieter moment or help with a difficulty. Start by naming it in your own words; a score is optional, and no wellbeing test is currently offered here.

Based on NHS · NIMH

“I'd like more room for the things that help me feel well. Could we talk about what is helping, what is difficult and one option that fits my day?”
Make it sound like you
Things you may be wondering

Your questions, with room for nuance.

You can read just the answer you need.

Do I need to improve every part of my life?

No. Choose a concern that matters to you. A list of wellbeing ideas is not a set of obligations.

Based on NIMH · NHS

Can wellbeing and a mental health condition coexist?

Yes. Wellbeing is broader than the absence of a diagnosis, and support can address meaningful daily life alongside treatment.

Based on NIMH

What if familiar self-care tips are inaccessible?

Consider a different scale or kind of support, including practical help. Money, disability and circumstances are relevant, not personal shortcomings.

Based on NIMH · WHO

Is there one overall wellbeing score here?

No. This hub offers information routes. Different questionnaires have limited purposes and cannot summarize your whole health or life.

Based on NIMH · NHS

Where this information comes from.

Use this hub to learn and prepare questions. It does not diagnose you or recommend a personal treatment plan. By Selfmora editorial; sources checked . Updated .

Additional explanations and examples: sources consulted . Examples illustrate ideas; they do not assess your personal health. Your questions

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