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Suicidal thoughts & support

If you are thinking about suicide, tell someone who can help you get support. You can use the contact routes below now; you do not need the perfect words or a questionnaire score.

If you need help now

If your life is at risk, you have seriously harmed yourself or you cannot keep yourself or someone else safe, contact local emergency services or go to the nearest emergency department.

Selfmora cannot respond to emergencies, monitor your safety or send help. You can leave this page and contact support directly.

Choose a contact for where you are.

United States

Talk or text with a crisis counselor.

Call or text 988. Suicidal crisis or emotional distress in the United States.

24 hours a day, seven days a week. In a life-threatening emergency, call 911 or go to an emergency department.

NIMH support information What to expect from 988
England

Get urgent mental health advice.

Call 111. Select the mental health option for urgent mental health advice in England.

24 hours a day, seven days a week. In a life-threatening emergency, call 999 or go to an emergency department.

NHS urgent support information

Contacts checked against linked official guidance on 8 October 2026. A service’s response process can vary; ask about confidentiality and its limits. These numbers are for the locations labeled.

Outside these locations? Find your next support route
01 / Get a clearer picture

You do not have to work this out alone.

Suicidal thoughts deserve support. Tell a trusted person, health professional or crisis service what is happening, even if explaining it feels difficult.

If you have seriously harmed yourself, feel you may act now or cannot keep yourself safe, seek emergency help. A website cannot assess your immediate safety.

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You can go straight to support.
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People and services you can turn to.

  • Emergency services

    If life is at risk or you cannot stay safe

  • Crisis support

    A country-appropriate person to talk to

  • Someone you trust

    Company while you reach support

  • Ongoing care

    A continuing professional conversation

Different support routes, not risk categories or a safety score. You do not need to read the whole page before contacting help. Source: NHS
A closer look

Let someone know you need support now.

A fictional message: “I am having suicidal thoughts and need help staying safe.” If talking feels difficult, you can show a written message or ask someone to help contact an appropriate service. Use the urgent routes above if you cannot stay safe.

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02 / Make sense of what has changed

A few words can help you reach a person.

These are unscored ways to ask for help, not warning-sign categories or a safety test.

Asking for support

“I am having thoughts of suicide and need support.”

Immediate safety

“I do not feel safe and need help now.”

Someone alongside you

“Can you stay with me while I contact help?”

Understanding the contact

“Can you explain what happens when I call this service?”

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03 / Put your experience into context

A real person can help understand what you need.

A crisis counselor or health professional can talk with you about safety and support. The exact process varies; the 988 provider explains its U.S. call, text and chat routes.

Selfmora does not monitor this page or respond to messages. It offers no suicide prediction, reassuring risk band or questionnaire that decides whether you can receive help.

Based on NHS · NIMH · NICE · 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline

Your experience, in three prompts
  1. 1
    What do you need right now?

    Tell a person if you do not feel safe or need immediate support.

  2. 2
    Who can be alongside you?

    Someone you trust while you contact help, if possible.

  3. 3
    What would make the next contact clearer?

    Ask who to contact, how and when.

Make a few notes
04 / Explore your support options

Urgent help and ongoing care have different roles.

Explore the options and ask what fits your circumstances and needs.

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Help for immediate needs

Emergency or crisis support can help with immediate needs. A health professional can discuss continuing care and support after that first contact.

A continuing support conversation

You can ask about a plan for getting help if thoughts return or become harder to manage. Discuss this with a professional; a generic online score cannot replace a conversation about your circumstances.

Make room for what helps

You can ask what happens when you contact a service.

Ask about the next step, who is involved and privacy limits. Services and arrangements differ by location. This page is information only: Selfmora cannot see how you are doing, respond to a crisis or send help.

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05 / Choose your next step

Find support. Prepare your next step.

Explore a tool, prepare a conversation or find someone to talk to. Choose what feels useful to you.

You can go directly to support.

Use the free guides to learn what to expect or find someone to talk to. If you need urgent help, go straight to the country-labeled support contacts.

Find urgent support
Practical guideYour words

Prepare for a conversation

A few prompts to help you explain what you have noticed and what you would like help with.

  • A simple notes builder
  • Copy your notes to keep
  • No account needed

You decide how much to write and share.

Find your words
Support directorySomeone beside you

Find your next kind of support

Explore where to begin with everyday support, professional help or an urgent conversation.

  • Ways to ask for help
  • Country-specific crisis contacts
  • Support at your own pace

If you need urgent help, go straight to support.

Find support
You can start right here

Your first sentence does not need to be perfect.

You can read the country label, choose a suitable contact and use a brief opening. If you are outside the listed locations, contact your local health or emergency service.

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“I am having thoughts of suicide and need help. Can you talk with me and help me reach the right support?”
Make it sound like you
Things you may be wondering

Your questions, with room for nuance.

You can read just the answer you need.

Do I need a test result before asking for help?

No. Contact an appropriate person or service directly. A questionnaire score should not decide whether you deserve support.

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Where this information comes from.

Use this hub to learn and prepare questions. It does not diagnose you or recommend a personal treatment plan. By Selfmora editorial; sources checked . Updated .

Additional explanations and examples: sources consulted . Examples illustrate ideas; they do not assess your personal health. Your questions

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