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Conduct disorder

When a young person's actions are putting people or relationships at risk, you may need both immediate support and a clearer understanding of what is happening. You can take harmful behaviour seriously while still seeing the young person as someone who needs care.

01 / Get a clearer picture

Serious, repeated difficulties need a full assessment.

Conduct disorder involves a persistent pattern of behaviour that violates other people's rights or major age-appropriate rules. It goes beyond an isolated disagreement or occasional rule breaking.

A professional needs to understand the young person's development, circumstances and other needs. A behaviour label should not replace their voice or be used to predict their future.

Based on American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry · American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry

Safety and support belong in the same conversation.
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Bring safety, context and care together.

  • Current safety

    Risks that need attention now

  • Young person's voice

    Their account of what is happening

  • Full context

    Health, learning, relationships and circumstances

  • Coordinated support

    A clear plan across relevant settings

Four priorities to discuss with a child or adolescent professional. Source: American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry
A closer look

Care needs a wider picture than a troubling incident.

A comprehensive assessment considers emotional and physical health, development, relationships, learning and the context of persistent behaviour. It is not a character judgment or a prediction of someone’s adult life.

  • Safety

    Address immediate risk through appropriate professional help.

  • Other needs

    Learning, mood, communication or trauma concerns may need assessment too.

  • Coordination

    Home, education and health services may need a shared plan.

Topics for a professional conversation, not diagnostic criteria.

Based on AACAP

02 / Make sense of what has changed

Explain the concern clearly, without defining the child by it.

A clinician can consider the pattern, severity and impact of concerns such as:

Safety

Aggression or threats that affect other people's or animals' safety.

Property concerns

Deliberate damage to property.

Trust and honesty

Repeated deceit or theft.

Serious rule concerns

Serious, ongoing rule violations affecting daily life.

Based on American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry · American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry

03 / Put your experience into context

Bring the young person's life into the picture.

Assessment may involve the young person, family, education and other relevant professionals. It can explore learning, attention, mood, trauma, substance use and other possible needs alongside the behaviour itself.

A broad rating form cannot diagnose conduct disorder by itself. Ask how safety, the young person's account and different informants' observations will be considered separately.

Based on American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry · American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry

Your experience, in three prompts
  1. 1
    Safety today

    What support is needed to keep the young person and people around them safe?

  2. 2
    Their perspective

    How will the young person be heard alongside family and school information?

  3. 3
    Coordinated care

    Who brings the plan together, and who should we contact if things worsen?

Plan a support conversation
04 / Explore your support options

Coordinate support across the places that matter.

Ask which age-appropriate support fits, how the young person will be involved and who can help with the next step.

Based on American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry · American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry

Support for the child

Psychological, family and behavioural support may form part of a plan, with help in education where needed. Treatment of co-occurring conditions may also be important.

Support around them

Ask who will coordinate care, how the plan supports everyone affected and when it will be reviewed. Support may take time; progress should be discussed in terms of real changes in safety, relationships and daily life.

Make room for what helps

Ask what continuing support will look like.

Care may involve the child, family and education alongside treatment for coexisting needs. Ask who coordinates the plan and how progress is understood beyond the absence of incidents. If anyone is in immediate danger, use local emergency help rather than attempting to manage it through a checklist.

Based on AACAP · AACAP

Room for your questions

You deserve to understand your care.

Safety and support belong in the same conversation.

Understand the appointment
05 / Choose your next step

Find support. Prepare your next step.

Find care or prepare a conversation. You can ask for help before you have a diagnosis.

Start with the child's needs, their own way of communicating and a professional who can help.

Help the child be heard

Ask how the child will be included, which assessment fits their age and what different supporters can contribute.

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Support around the child

Discuss support at home, in education and through appropriate local care. Ask who to contact while waiting.

Explore support options
You can start right here

Your first sentence does not need to be perfect.

Tell an appropriate health professional what is happening, how it affects others and whether there are current safety concerns. Ask what help is available while assessment or treatment is being arranged.

Based on American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry

“I am concerned about repeated behaviour that is affecting safety and relationships. We need help understanding the young person's needs and making a coordinated support plan.”
Prepare for the appointment
Things you may be wondering

Your questions, with room for nuance.

You can read just the answer you need.

Can a broad behaviour questionnaire diagnose this?

No. Informant questionnaires can contribute information, but a child-focused professional assessment is needed to understand persistent patterns and context.

Based on AACAP

Where this information comes from.

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